I think that my presence at work…
Is unlocking some latent homosexual feelings in a co-worker. There is this person I work with. He is married and has two kids. Before he was married his wife worked with us. I told her I thought he had just a touch of queer in him.
I say this because of the things he says to me. I have never known any straight man to joke so much about my being gay in such a way. He jokes constantly about me “wanting” him. I think I could have him if I wanted to. He “jokes” about having to go to the bathroom and asks if I want to hold it. He even looks for men to point out to me that he knows I would find attractive. I am not usually the one to think someone is gay when they say they are not but seriously the man is practically begging for dick…or to do something with a guy. Even his wife thinks it is a little strange sometimes not to mention all of his friends. I am pretty lenient when it comes to joking around at work. As long as we are all having fun I could care less if other people joke about being gay, hell, I don’t even care if they say some downright nasty horrible things…which they have. I am not one of those “Oh God you said queer! That’s offensive!” people. I have a sense of humor and am able to remove insult from a joke. But that is how we all get along. We talk shit, no different than anyone else really. But this one person seems to have some unresolved homosexual tendencies he has to deal with.
What would you think if someone who claimed to be straight made constant overt suggestions about some sexual contact? If you worked with someone who was “straight” but would often joke about you sucking him off or holding his dick for some reason or another…what message would that say to you?
